To bring growth in you life. There is more that is required to have someone be part of it. The blood is not enough. Dealing with family is a bit of a challenge. No matter if you leave and return. There will always be a box that has been built around you. I am here to remind you that you are not the only one that deals with these same issues. You are growing and becoming your ideal person. You are allowed to accomplish the goals you want. You aren’t a bad daughter/son. You aren’t being disrespectful. Its hard for them to accept that they can no longer control you. Just why can’t you speak up? Do you not feel safe? Is it the criticism? Is it the judgement? You are allowed to voice these thoughts. You are not being abused anymore. It’s also not just family. The people around you can’t hurt you. The energy you give them only makes them scarier and bigger. However, take that energy away and they are no longer in control. Apart from the loss of control. The don’t care and that’s a good thing. It sucks that they have taken everything from you and now when you have the power. They walk away. It’s unfair and you want to keep going back and try to fix it. You curse and scream at them why now do you behave in this way? You were just a kid. A kid navigating with what they knew best. A kid that was protecting themselves. A kid that could only relay on others. It’s scary to grow up and take charge. It sucks having to start over. It sucks to feel the pressure. It sucks to realize that you were always this amazing being and that others felt threatened or jealous. You were just a kid. You no longer have to take in or reason with the hate or the negativity. Just because they were always there it does not mean that they will be good to you. They can no longer interfere. What is the hold up?